Reverend Marvin talks about facing disappointment
The Rev Dave Marvin, of St Mary’s Church, Greasley, Nottinghamshire, England speaks about wrong expectations and facing disappointment.
The other day I came across this story. After five years, a psychiatrist told his patient that he seldom uses the term “cured” but he was pleased to announce that she was completely cured.
To his surprise, the patient became disappointed. The doctor asked, “What’s wrong? I thought you would be thrilled to know that you were cured”. The woman replied, “Doctor, look at it from my point of view. Five years ago I was Joan of Arc. Now I am nobody”.
This is a woman who was disappointed because she thought/expected to be someone who she clearly wasn’t and wasn’t happy when she faced the reality of her situation.
That’s why many people face disappointments today; they have the wrong expectations. As a result, they face more and more disappointments and don’t really know how to deal with them.
I read an article written by Warren Rodwell who had been held hostage by a terrorist group and had featured in a number of ransom videos. He told Daily Mail Australia he became more compliant after he lost hope.
“Whatever someone wants, you give it to them”, he said.
“You just do what you’re told. Nothing really has meaning to you any more. Someone tells you “say this” and you say it. You just imagine whoever is watching it is smart enough to realise you haven’t really got your heart in it. Once you lose hope you lose heart.”
Our Lord Jesus suffered unthinkable horrors at the hands of his captors and was killed in one of the cruellest forms of execution imaginable. We know that he suffered both physically and mentally. The Bible tells us that before his death Jesus said, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death”.
We’re also told that in his anguish he prayed earnestly and his sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground.
But his death opened up immense opportunities for us and gave us hope even in our darkest of times. It’s up to us to accept the light of Christ, to accept those opportunities and use them to bring Christ’s light into the lives of those who are living in dark times, seemingly without hope. Because ‘Once you lose heart, you lose hope’; I pray that it won’t be the heart of Jesus and the hope that he brings.
COMMENT 3 (Newest to oldest):
Good question, Taiwan (BELOW).
A body is animated by the soul. Jesus’ body was no different, except that it was both fully human and fully divine: there wasn’t a “human part” and a “divine part”. As his whole nature was fully human and fully divine, it follows that his soul was both fully human and fully divine as well, for he could not be the Word Incarnate without the Word being part of all of his incarnate nature.
This is attested by the Fathers, for example St John Damascene:
By the fact that at Christ’s death his soul was separated from his flesh, his one person is not itself divided into two persons; for the human body and soul of Christ have existed in the same way from the beginning of his earthly existence, in the divine person of the Word; and in death, although separated from each other, both remained with one and the same person of the Word.
De fide orth. 3, 27: quoted in the Catechism of the Catholic Church 626
No one knows exactly how old Jesus was when he died on the cross, but he was probably 33 years of age. This could naturally lead one to wonder, in human terms, if Jesus was twenty years older (Warren Rodwell was 53 at the time of his capture); would Jesus have matured more in his worldliness and outlook, and not be so grief-stricken (sorrowful) up to the point of his death?
Perhaps, someone well-versed in the Bible (such as Rev Dave Marvin, himself) might be able to provide some insight into this scenario.
COMMENT 2 (Newest to oldest):
Taiwan writes: I wonder why Jesus was so sorrowful up to the point of his death? After all he came to Earth expressly in order to die (for man’s sins)
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472 Days writes: